Sex, again

[unavoidedcrisis]

Wait a flippin' second.

I don't want sex. Does this mean I want no sexual relationship of any kind? Am I entitled to one?

I am destined to be a frigid bitch for all eternity?

Where's my pleasure? Am I responsible for creating it, or am I allowed to find someone to help me create it? If I can take a stand today and say I do not want sex, am I even allowed to ask someone else to enter into a relationship with me on those terms? Will I ever find anyone willing?

I am not rethinking my choice, I am merely rethinking.

Comments

Maybe, yes, yes?

[theunholydragon.livejournal.com]

There are degrees of sexual relationships. Not wanting sex doesn't cut you off from other possibilities. That's one you have to decide for yourself.

You are still entitled to one if you so desire.

Your pleasure is what you make it really. Some people don't find sex pleasurable, and get their pleasure elsewhere. It's not unheard of.

That said, you can be in a relationship sans sex. The two are far from mutually exclusive. It just means you have to be more discerning about a partner.

You'll figure it out. ^-^

[kandigurl.livejournal.com]

You'll find people willing, BUT YOU ARE TOTALLY MISSING OUT.

I kid :) I'm just slightly obsessed with sex. I used to feel the way you did, though.

[greenwoodrosie.livejournal.com]

You can be in a relationship without having sex. My boy and I are like that, we've decided that sex can wait until marriage, which is a good four or five years away. I've learned the hard way about sex and relationships...it's best not to think about it. Get to know them and what they are about first...physical attraction comes with time ^_^ You know what's best for you.